Our daughter is 12 years old (turns 13 in July) and we are not pleased with her breast size and general attitude and sinful appearance and behavior.
We have warned her specifically about her breasts multiple times in the past 2 months that she needs to wear the tighter restraining sports bra that my wife purchased for her that is designed to keep their appearance smaller and not as rude. She makes up bogus complaints about “uncomfortable” and so forth with her obvious motivation to sin and have her breasts protrude to unacceptable amount in order most likely to attempt to lure male classmates to commit sin looks at her and we are very angry with her. She has also refused to repent on multiple occasions for this even in the presence of our priest when we took her for priest counsel. It has brought my wife to tears and I am extremely frustrated.
Anyway, we and our priest have decided that since she is unwilling to change her behavior, and we have tried everything else without success, we are going to have her have a breast reduction procedure. However our problem is that we are unable to find a plastic surgeon who is of our faith. Does anyone know how we can find a good plastic surgeon that is strict Baptist, we will not allow our daughter in personal presence with non Baptists as we do not take kindly to pollution from outsiders who tend to impose sin and pollute our good family, particularly our daughter, who seems to have had outside influences that have corrupted her, and given us these trying times in the first place.
Thank you.
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I’m 19 and I married my wife over a year ago (when I was still 18). Long story short, I found out that she’s had two abortions during our marriage. I would not have married her had she said she did not want children but she said multiple times that she did want to have children. After I confronted her, she said she’s decided that she wants to get her tubes tied. I’ve always wanted children so I even threw the idea of adoption out (being "blood related" to a child isn’t a big deal for me) but she’s completely adamant now that she can’t stand children and doesn’t want anything to do with them. I had to leave for about two and a half months right after for a job out of the country and she just decided to get plastic surgery (breast enlargement) and doesn’t even give a thought to call and tell me "Honey. Just a heads up. I’ll be a DD cup when you get back." And no, she didn’t do it for me because I liked her body before and I’ve never eyed implanted women who look as if they’re about to burst with silicone or done anything that could give her the idea that I liked that look at all. And she says she plans to get more (and again, she doesn’t ask my opinion). I know it’s her body but I wouldn’t go off and get a green mohawk and tattoo my face because I know she probably wouldn’t like it. But separation never crossed my mind until she said that she only married me for my money. So, does this qualify for an annulment? This is not the woman I married.
The guidelines for annulment say you must be married less than FOUR years. It’s only been about a year and a half.
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