I’m 19 and I married my wife over a year ago (when I was still 18). Long story short, I found out that she’s had two abortions during our marriage. I would not have married her had she said she did not want children but she said multiple times that she did want to have children. After I confronted her, she said she’s decided that she wants to get her tubes tied. I’ve always wanted children so I even threw the idea of adoption out (being "blood related" to a child isn’t a big deal for me) but she’s completely adamant now that she can’t stand children and doesn’t want anything to do with them. I had to leave for about two and a half months right after for a job out of the country and she just decided to get plastic surgery (breast enlargement) and doesn’t even give a thought to call and tell me "Honey. Just a heads up. I’ll be a DD cup when you get back." And no, she didn’t do it for me because I liked her body before and I’ve never eyed implanted women who look as if they’re about to burst with silicone or done anything that could give her the idea that I liked that look at all. And she says she plans to get more (and again, she doesn’t ask my opinion). I know it’s her body but I wouldn’t go off and get a green mohawk and tattoo my face because I know she probably wouldn’t like it. But separation never crossed my mind until she said that she only married me for my money. So, does this qualify for an annulment? This is not the woman I married.
The guidelines for annulment say you must be married less than FOUR years. It’s only been about a year and a half.